RESHAPING BRAIN N LIFE
There are few things one must know about
brain-
Your brain is constantly renewing itself.
Your brain can heal its wounds form the past.
Experience changes the brain every day.
The input you give your brain causes it to
form new neural pathways.
The more positive the input, the better your
brain will function.
The old view of the brain as fixed for life,
constantly losing neurons and declining in function, has been all but
abolished. The new brain is a process, not a thing, and the process heads in
the direction you point it in. A Buddhist monk meditating on compassion
develops the brain circuitry that brings compassion into reality. Depending on
the input it receives, you can create a compassionate brain, an artistic brain,
a wise brain, or any other kind.
However, as we see it, the agent that makes
these possibilities become real is the mind. The brain doesn't create its own
destiny. Genetics delivers the brain in a functioning state so that the nervous
system can regulate itself and the whole body. It doesn't take your
intervention to balance hormone levels, regulate heartbeat, or do a thousand
other autonomic functions. But the newest part of the brain, the neocortex, is
where the field of possibilities actually lies. Here is where decisions are made,
where we discriminate, worship, assess, control, and evolve.
If you think of everyday experience as input
for your brain, and your actions and thoughts as output, a feedback loop is
formed. The old cliché about computer software - garbage in, garbage out -
applies to all feedback loops. Toxic experiences shape the brain quite
differently from healthy ones. This seems like common sense, but neuroscience
has joined forces with genetics to reveal that right down to the level of DNA,
the feedback loop that embraces mind and body is profoundly changed by the
input processed by the brain.
Our aim was to cut to the chase. If input is
everything, then happiness and well-being are created by giving the brain
positive input. Without realizing it, you are here to inspire your brain to be
the best it can be. This is much more than positive thinking, which is often
too superficial and masks underlying negativity. The input that inspires the
brain includes a wide array of things. Everyone wants to experience positive feelings
(love, hope, optimism, appreciation, approval) without knowing how to get them.
For all the theories that proliferate about happiness, from the brain's
perspective, the formula is to maximize the positive messages being received by
the cortex and minimize the negative ones.
What this implies isn't a brave new world of
thought control or pretending that life is rosy. Life will always present
challenges, setbacks, and crises. The point is to create a matrix that will
allow you to best adapt to both sides, the light and the dark, of experience.
In our book, we were particularly focused on a setup that would take people
into old age with a brain that remains dynamic and resilient.
Here is our recommendation, having considered
the most up-to-date neuroscience.
Matrix for a Positive Lifestyle
Have good friends.
Don’t isolate yourself.
Sustain a lifelong companionship with a spouse
or partner.
Engage socially in worthwhile projects.
Be close with people who have a good lifestyle
– habits are contagious.
Follow a purpose in life.
Leave time for play and relaxation.
Keep up satisfying sexual activity.
Address issues around anger.
Practice stress management.
Deal with the reactive mind’s harmful effects:
When you have a negative reaction, stop, stand back, take a few deep breaths,
and observe how you’re feeling.
Your brain will thrive in such a matrix, even
as life brings its ups and downs. But by the same token, the brain can't arrive
at any of these things on its own. You are the leader of your brain. We’ll expand
on this theme in the next post, since the whole issue of feedback loops turns
out to be vital for all kinds of brain functions, including memory and the
prevention of feared disorders like Alzheimer's.